Emotional Intelligence

Hi,

I am glad I am back after a hiatus. However I plan to post daily as I feel that the last era of my life, I must establish myself as a writer. There is so much everyday that moves me, makes me think, makes me want to write, leave all the experience and thoughts behind.

Just the other day, I joined my son for a sci fi movie and it centered around the time when man will easily travel to other planets and galaxies. What concerned me the most from the movie was that the destroying, the killing, the ruling, eliminating the enemy factor does not leave the imagination of a human mind. What also worried me was that the emotional intelligence was so poor that I doubt man would make any progress towards mankind, but will definitely make a lot of progress with mind.

The topic emotional intelligence is always on the top of my mind and if as parents, as society, as educationists, we would concentrate on the emotional intelligence development more, then I think we would conquer the entire galaxy and other planets as well with love and warmth, rather than using the intelligence to strategise to destroy.

The training of the emotional intelligence starts right in every home, as soon as the baby is born. The response to the mother, e response to the arrival of the baby, the response given by grandparents, all is getting imprinted on the available subconscious brain of the baby. What is spoken around, what verbals and non verbals go around, what statements, proverbs, music, rituals, gossips, should's  and musts, all are being devoured by the subconscious mind and keeps doing so till age 6 after which the human computer, the brain is ready to churn out into action all that has been programmed.

Therefore it is a must that we first understand the meaning of emotional intelligence, we understand how this intelligence is a must and how it can save mankind from remaining the caveman forever.

I shall come back tomorrow to share what is emotional intelligence. Till then have a emotionally balanced evening.


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